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Reply with quote | #46 |
hello everybody , i am Hellen, well, this time more than giving my opinion i would like someone to tell me why is wrong to have sex before marriage and to base this IN THE BIBLE NOT BASED IN THEIR OPINION,.
i need to know the parts of the NEW TESTAMENT ,well ,specifically the PARTS OF THE GOSPELS that SAY that sex BEFORE marriage is wrong, which ones are they? . so that i can read them ,
when Jesus came he gave us the final law,and here he explained what is right and wrong and that is why i want to hear it from the gospels so i want to hear where in the 4 GOSPELS says that is wrong , could someone list the versicles for me please. thanks. pls in the GOSPELS thanks.
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| Folorunsho Moshood |
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Reply with quote | #47 |
Over to you, the anointed men and women of God. But point of correction - Jesus's laws were given to us by his disciples. His disciples are anthologized scriptures writers. And according to one of them (I'm not good at quoting the bible) Jesus repealed the law of 'an eye for an eye' - Moses' law - and replaced with 'who will cast the first stone?'. Whatever sins you commit today do not count inasmuch as you go on your bended knees before Jehovah. On the other side, you can bomb the whole world for God, you will have seven virgins waiting for you in paradise. Let us teach our children morals and good behaviour, never use all these confused anthologies. |
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| mariel |
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Reply with quote | #48 |
i think sex is a natural thing!!!! sex before marriage hey i mean u have to test drive the car before u buy it eeehhh!!! |
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| MARIEL |
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Reply with quote | #49 |
IM NOT REALLY RELIGIOUS I GREW UP WITH A CATHOLIC MEXICAN MOTHER WHO WAS ALWAYS PREYING!!!! WELL I WANT TO KNOW WHERE DOES IT SAY THAT U CANNOT HAVE INTIMACY WITH MAN OR WOMEN U LOVE....WHERE DOES IT SAY HE WILL CONDEM US IN HELL( IF THERE IS A HELL) RESPECT TO ALL U PEOPLE UWHO BELIEVE IN WAITING BUT U DONT KNOW HOW GOOD IT FEELS TO MAKE LOVE TO THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE |
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| Katie |
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I think that sex before marriage is ok because people are being carefull(well most of them anyway) and they are takin care of wot the consequences are!
i don't believe that people should wait until they are married before they have sex because what if they are like 50 or 60 years old wen they have sex-thats if they have sex at that age.
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| Folorunsho Moshood |
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Reply with quote | #51 |
Mariel: I don't think it is good to compare human beings (male or female) with a mere machine or product. We are not sexual objects. You are right. Sex is natural it will come when it will. |
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| Tom |
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Reply with quote | #52 |
Some people here fail to understand that the bible was written by man. Yes it does portray God's message, but his message interpreted by mankind. I should also mention that I am a devout catholic, but I understand that the bible has tales in it to direct us morally, and show us the way. The bible contradicts itself in many ways, and it was clearly written in a time way before us. One example which was mentioned by someone here... Adam and Eve... I hope this person was joking, because every one by now know they never existed. So if you are against sex before marriage due to the bible let me ask you this.. are you also against
-Moving in together before marriage.
-using protection when having sex. (any way to purposely prevent having a child)
-homosexuality
-getting divorced (sucks for you if your spouse miss treats you)
-getting your dog neutered ( yes, Lev 22.24)
-Not to put the word of God to the test (Deut. 6:16)
-Not to indulge in familiarities with relatives, such as kissing, embracing, winking, skipping, which may lead to incest (Lev. 18:6) .. for the record I like hugging my grandma when I see her for the holidays.
All of these things are against the bible. We live in a age where you simply can't literally believe the bible. You need to use it as a guide line.
If they were to add another verse to the bible they would probably speak out against bunnies, because they steal easter from Jesus.
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| Dana |
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Reply with quote | #53 |
You know though...back in the days when the Bible was written, people met and were married within a matter of months. Now, it takes us much longer. For example: We don't get married at 13 anymore...we wait FORVER which is very hard to do...in addition, most people wait years and years to get married. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and by the time we get out of college and can get married, we will have been together for 9 years. That's a long time to be with someone and not have sex. It's almost impossible. Especially if you love them, you just want to give everything to them. |
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| Folorunsho Moshood |
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Reply with quote | #54 |
I have said it before that there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage. Sex is just one out of many ingredients of LOVE. Kissing, hugging, necking and pecking are also essential ingredients of Love and they usually preceed a wonderful round of sex. Without being vulgar, I think ladies should also think of themselves as winners after sexual activities. Whether such activities lead to marriage or not will then be immaterial to them. |
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| Libby |
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Hi. I'm 17 (about to be 18) and I've been dating this guy (20 years old) for almost a year now; we've known and liked eachother for about 2. We started off admiring eachother as friends but because of circumstances, we could not be together. When we finally got together, he was my first kiss and later, my first everything. When we kissed deeply he would put his hands around my waist and stomach but often stop short and tell me that he doesnt want to go too far. I didnt want him to feel at all afraid of me so I told him that I wanted us to become more physical and he suggested that I waited until homecoming night to make it more special. That night I gave my virginity to him and I was admittedly a little afraid of how he would treat me afterwards. Despite what I hear everyone say about today's relationships, his love for me did not change and he has continued to love and stay with me through thick and thin. He tells me that we are not just "having sex"; he tells me that we are making love. The next month he bought me a promise ring out of his own dwindling funds (his dad died so he has to support his mom and his little brother). He always talks about how he wants us to get married as soon as possible, but he acknowledges that we both need financial stability first. I take the BCP "Yaz" perfectly and we also use withdrawal.
I say that people need to be SURE about a person before they have sex. It is essential to recognize emotional and physical compatability (in that order), even before marriage. If you have any doubts about a person's love and respect for you, wait. Also, I believe God categorizes nonspecific, spontaneous sex as a sin. I believe he gave us the sexual urge to MAKE LOVE, which I do not believe is a sin. Because MAKING LOVE is very rare out of marriage, sexual activity in this category has been strictly labeled as a sin; putting those of us who are responsible about it under a bad light.
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Reply with quote | #56 |
I find it hard to believe sex before marriage is wrong. I agree that the tweens and teens should wait until they truely love someone before having sex. I am in a loving relationship, and hopefully plan to marry the man I am with, but it is his choice for us not to not have sex until we are married. Although we both have had sex in our past relationships, it is hard for me to understand why having sex at this point in my life is really a bad thing.
Please help me to understand if you can. Thanks
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| vanessa |
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Reply with quote | #57 |
It is wrong to have sex before marriage. We live in a society where the media has had so much negative effect on our minds and we have gradually lost the true believe of chastity and purity. Sex is something we could wait to have for the rest of ourlives with our future partner, so why the rush! Sex before marraige its not only a sin before God, but a sin commited against our own body. For the christians out there, know that your body is the temple of God and I want you to know that you are not of the world. There is joy coming before the throne of God everyday in prayer knowing that your body is a living sacrifice before God. Take it as a challenge, that you are not only pleasing God becuase of His command, but because You Love Him. When you love someone, you desire to please him all the way.
It pays to wait! keep that treasure! resist temptation! flee from every appearance of evil, keep your head high cause when you walk down the street, you are confident that no one has seen your or touched your body!
Do not take 3 or 4 minuites pleasure for a lifetime stigma!
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| yadav |
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Quote: Originally Posted by jeffreyyou mean is it nessary for he and she should have experence abot sex? otherwise they can not do totaally in the periopd of sexual intercourses.
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| Armine |
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Hi Patricia Leo, I think i may know the guy at macys you had that terrible experience with. He did the same thing to me, I'm just wondering if it is the same Arsen we are talking about. Please reply if you see this! thanks! |
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| CHARITY |
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Reply with quote | #60 |
I BELIEVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A NO NO!! MY DAD WOULD KILL ME IF HE FINDS OUT I HAD SEX AND PREGNANT!!! COME ON NOW, UM 16, EVEN THOUGH I HEAR "SEX FEELS GREAT!! ITS FUN" YEA BUT YOU JUSS LETTING YOUR SELF DOWN!! MOST BOYS WANT THE GURLS SEX FREE LIKE VIRGINS, AND IF YOU TELL THE GUY YOUR A SEX FANATIC!! THEN THATS ALL HE GONE WANT FROM, YOU!!REAL LOVE IS HONESTY AND TRUST, LOVE IT SELF IS JUST SEX!! THATS WHY SO MANY BOYS SAY THEY LOVE YOU, AND THEY JUST WANT YOUR SEX!!LADIES BE STRONG AND BOYS DO THE RIGHT THING!! |
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