I think, Idealistically, from an average male's propspective, a chaste wife would be a great gift of heart and body, but there are men who think it their right to have a virginal bride. Many women even men choose to withold from sexual contact until they are fully emerged into the martial state. This has it's benefits as well as it's negative points. A positive to chastity with either or both partner is that it protects against the spread of HIV and other STDs. On the flip side, waiting until marriage leaves the burning question, "what if this is the only man I'll ever kiss." Even virginal women have usually kissed other males. You can easily tell what you consider to be a good kiss, a bad kiss and one that simply has "fireworks." it's much the same with sex. Not every time will be perfect but if you wait until marriage to ever have sex, you'll have never known anything different. It's kind of like being born in Athens Georgia, growing up there and never knowing anything else. You may never know the wonders of a severly passionate lover or even the pitfalls of a broken heart... associated with your bed. Sometimes I wish I had saved myself for my husband, but for the most part, I feel... if I had never gone through what I did, I might never have found him and I might never know just how good he is for me and... in fact, TO me.

I do not think there is anything wrong with sex before marriage. The only reason this has ever come up is because of the Christian/Catholic religion. It's commandments or whatever they are called state this because back when they were thought up there were no condems or birth control pills so this was a problem. They made this rule so that people wouldn't get pregnant every time they had sex. Atleast than most of the time when they had sex when married they would nto get divorced and usually the kids would just end up working on the farm or as labourers.

i agree word no one waits until they get married 2 have sex they might say they did but they are some real good story tellers if we dont have sex we wont have children to carry on our name yah dig

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To me there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage. You need to know somebody you are going to spend the rest of your life with sexually otherwise the marriage may collapse before the honeymoon. Visit any marriage counsellor today, his/her case file will be full of sex-induced marriage problems. Some of these counsellors are using the opportunity to lure their clients (mostly females) into bed, especially if it is the husbands that were not up to their masculine duties. Understanding your sexual partner takes time - some like it rough while some like it gentle; some are maniacs while some are frigid; some are impotent while some are fertile. I don't want us to use scriptures (Quoran or Bible) to teach sexuality education or any issues that has to do with sex. Jacob had it with two blood sisters. Adam's sons and daugthers had it with themselves. I can't use the songs of Solomon to pray for my children. All these happened in the old testament, agreed. In the new testament when all the 'Thou Shall Nots' were replaced/removed, people started to abuse sex because they knew that they would beg for forgiveness of sins. It is amazing, you can kill your fellow human being and still enter paradise. This is simple, just accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and saviour and repent your sins before passing away. In Islam, you can bomb the whole world in the name of faith and you will marry virgins in paradise. We should use 'cause and effect' to teach sexuality education and not religion. In fact 'Thou Shall Nots' have failed woefully because of 'Reactance Theory'. Reactance Theory states that youths generally will always like to experiment on what is tagged 'Thou Shall Not'. You have to inform the youths about the consequences of their sexual activities.